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How to Hijack Your Own Influence during Q&A

Wednesday, July 29th, 2009 by admin

You’ve been leading a high priority mission for months.  You’ve pushed. Prodded. You’ve influenced internally because you believe it’s the most vital issue facing your organization. Your team has invested sweat equity and they’re counting on you to make it happen publicly.

At last, it’s time to present your idea to an audience and influence others to take action.  So what happens when you finally stand before your audience and take your swing at bat?

You get hijacked during Q&A.

obama-health-presser-2It happened to the President of the United States on his home turf last week. At the end of his prime time health care news conference, Barack Obama answered a hot button question that was totally off-topic.  Instead of asking about health care, a reporter asked the president what he thought of the confrontation between Harvard scholar Henry Louis Gates and Cambridge police officer James Crowley. The president weighed in with his opinion on race relations, ending with the tantalizing words “acted stupidly.”

Bingo! Home run for the reporter! She’d successfully hijacked a presidential press conference. If this was a game of chess, she’d just pulled a capture: removing the opponent’s piece or pawn from the board by taking it with one’s own. The president’s health care headline was toast. Now, the headlines were commandeered to scream of the 3 P’s: the president, the professor and the police.

This is a living, breathing reminder to all of us to be mindful of Q&A so that our message doesn’t become part of an opportunistic takeover – friendly or hostile.

Here are a few tips to help ensure that you don’t hijack your own influence during Q&A:

  • Don’t answer too quickly. If the question is off-topic and hot button, don’t allow yourself to be hijacked.  Gently but firmly respond that the question is important but it’s off-topic and will be best addressed during a more appropriate occasion. Offer a specific time when you will provide a thoughtful answer.  The key is that you shouldn’t appear to be dodging the question. You’re simply deferring it to a more appropriate time and place.
  • Keep your answer brief. The more you talk, the more likely you are to get caught up in your underwear and say something you’ll regret. Long answers often lead to an unfortunate choice of words (think “acted stupidly”) that can bite you in the backside. Talk less, but say more.
  • Bridge back to your key points.  The purpose of your presentation is to influence your audience and drive them to action.  Never forget that.  Use the audience’s questions to reinforce your key points, not to steer the boat in a completely different direction.
  • Don’t let Q&A be the final word. Always have two closings.  1) The one that ends your prepared remarks before Q&A, and 2) the one that wraps everything up after Q&A.  End with power and a strength of conviction that your message is high priority and actionable.
  • Plan for hot topic tie-ins. You shouldn’t be surprised in today’s “anything goes” society.  Think current events.  What’s on people’s minds? Prepare, prepare, prepare.

As a communication coach, I guide senior executives in their high-profile presentations. As the day of their presentation draws near, I shift our focus from delivery of their key messages to preparation for high stakes Q&A.   I ask every  relevant question that I believe their audience might ask to ensure that the executive is influential in driving the ball forward, not backwards. Then, I slip on my broadcaster’s  cap and link their topic to other hot-button topics. This is an eye-opening exercise for executives who tell me it  has saved them from embarrassment, being at a loss for words, saying something they’d later regret, and a loss of leadership influence. It boosts their confidence to handle anything that comes their way.

My inner Girl Scout constantly whispers the motto “Be prepared” in my ear.  Never has that been more essential than in today’s loosey-goosey world of Q&A.

Are You a Communicator-in-Chief?

Sunday, January 18th, 2009 by admin

george-bush1Out with the old, in with the new.  As we say goodbye to George Bush and his colorful, sometimes mangled communications, (can you say misunderestimated?) we usher in a new era of oratory.

We’re shifting to a new Communicator-in-Chief. What do I mean by this? A Communicator-in-Chief is a leader whose messages are so pragmatic, on point, and invigorating that his words spark immediate actions.  His/her messages unite, inspire and challenge others to reach their collective highest performance.  Communicators-in-Chief make things happen. President Bush was at the top of his game when, with a bullhorn to his lips and a firefighter at his hip,  he stood atop the rubble in New York City after 9/11 and rallied our country. Barack Obama promises to be an exceptional Communicator-in-Chief, which I’ll get to in a moment.

First, let’s focus on you. Are you a Communicator-in-Chief? You are if your  job depends upon making things happen through others. There are three habits you must master to reach your highest performance:

  1. You must connect engagingly. It’s essential to engage others straight away in today’s distraction-driven, short attention span world. People tune out quickly today. You’ll attract and earn people’s attention  by frontloading your communications with what’s truly relevant and matters most to them.
  2. You must convey clearly. We’re living in an information-overload society. Tossing too many facts and figures around is like adding empty junk food calories to your diet. Junk words dilute your message and lead to confusion, not clarity. You must make a conscious choice to pare down your words and deliver shorter, more visually stimulating messages if you want people to retain the information you share.
  3. You must convince specifically. It’s not the talk that matters, it’s the action.  It’s critical that you be ultra-specific about the step you want people to take.  Now is not the time for assumptions or vagueness. What, precisely, do you want others to do? Make your viewpoint or request utterly actionable because that’s the key to making things happen without delay in our busy world.

Develop these three habits and you’ll set in motion a transformative process to ensure that people listen to you, understand you, and take action.  (These are the principles in my forthcoming book, Talk Less, Say More, which will be in bookstores this fall.)

barack-obamaIncoming President-Elect Barack Obama has so far been an extraordinary Communicator-in-Chief which, ironically, his detractors hold against him. His critics call him “Mr. Podium.” They argue that he merely talks a good game.  I’m not buying that.  While I agree that blowhards are not true leaders, from what I’ve seen, Obama’s  no blowhard.  His words are based on visions that are implemented to unite and inspire action. Isn’t that the opposite of empty rhetoric? Far from merely talking a good game, if you communicate your visions effectively, action is the endgame.

Top Communicators-in-Chief also choose interactive formats to help others feel invested and make their messages people-powered.  In 2009, YouTube is the new fireside chat. LinkedIn is the new press release. Bloggers are the new reporters.  Tweeters are the new cheerleaders. Barack Obama’s team wisely used interactive tools to unite and invite voters to the polls.  Even better,  his incoming administration is promising to remake the stodgy White House website to invite citizens’ feedback.

What about you? Are you using the right tools to communicate your messages in the 21st century … or are you stuck in one-way, old-school memo style?  Your messages can trigger immediate feedback in the Age of Input which, if you’re smart, will supplement and improve your decision-making.

My challenge to you is this: develop your skills to inspire, unite, and  move others to action.  Choose a communication habit to improve (connect, convey, or convince) and write down 3 things you’ll start doing immediately to master the habit.  Take these steps, and you’ll be on your way to becoming an exceptional Communicator-in-Chief.

Yes, you can.

3 Habits Led Obama to the White House

Wednesday, November 5th, 2008 by admin

Like you, I’ve paid close attention to Barack Obama.  As a communication coach, I’ve specifically zeroed in on his ability to get his points across and move people to action.

From a communication perspective, Obama won the race because he successfully applied 3 habits. They’re simple, but profound habits:  He connected. He conveyed.  He convinced.

These habits are a playbook for business leaders around the world.  I could write a book on them.  Matter of fact, I have.  Talk Less, Say More is scheduled to be released in 2009. Let me summarize these habits quickly by highlighting just a few ways that Obama applied them successfully:

Habit #1: Connect. One of the biggest issues facing any leader today is to engage people in our distraction-driven, listening-impaired, short attention span world. Barack Obama’s campaign connected with what Americans wanted and valued most.  He stayed in our moment and tapped into our hot-button issue, the economy.  And he delivered it with what I call your PMOC: your Preferred Method of Communication.  Early on, his team went digital, using 21st century methods to a wildly successful advantage. For example, Obama’s team text-messaged better than any teenager I’ve ever seen. (And I’m raising two of the most prolific texters in America.) He also engaged us by bringing us together, habitually stressing the United States, not merely red and blue states.

Habit #2: Convey. It’s a real challenge to cut through today’s information overload. Getting your point across requires clarity in order to prevent confusion.  Obama learned to make his points with vivid clarity, avoiding ambiguity. Maybe you don’t agree with his viewpoints, but he conveys them transparently, without gumming them up. Storytelling is a key, and Obama’s story was one of humble origins. His campaign was full of stirring videos and his infomercial, watched by more than 32 million people last week, weaved a “my story is your story” narrative to convey that he understands your economic fears and other concerns like health care.

Habit #3: Convince. People are pulled in so many directions today, both in the office and in the voting booth, that it’s a challenge to sway them. As a leader, it’s critical to move people to commit to action.  Decisiveness is one of the keys.  And Obama is a master decision maker.  He allows others to speak their minds, and then he makes the decision.  No second-guessing.  No waffling.  He sticks with his decisions, which sways others to join him.  I believe the debates put Obama over the top by demonstrating his decisiveness and calm demeanor.  He also capitalized on what I call “peer power.” He gained clout by bringing well-connected people like Oprah Winfrey, Ted Kennedy, Warren Buffett, and Colin Powell into his corner and allowing them to transfer their clout to him.

John McCain used these 3 habits in his concession speech last night, as well. Didn’t you think it was one of the most touching, unifying speeches in political history?

Can you use these habits in the business world?  Yes, you can.  You can Connect-Convey-Convince® your way to success.